Love is not the want for a relationship, marriage, image or money.
Love can be expressed beyond just appreciating someone’s appearance and money.
When you see beyond the results, you are loving. You can see beyond the results which are money and appearance by appreciating the steps in which the money was gotten and the looks where achieved. (The hard work).
Appreciating the steps means you care and you are supportive. In my opinion, loving this way is hard because you might have to go out of your casual ways to notice the steps. Going out of your causal ways for more than one person is stressful which will make cheating to be irrelevant.
To love can be stressful but when you love the one for you, you won’t feel stress of any sort.
I hope you find the one for you.