The bad effect negative people can have on us can be detrimental to our well being, daily activities and our goals. Knowing how to deal with negative people cannot be avoided so as to achieve our goals and live healthily. Below are 4 ways you can deal with negative people.
Believe in Yourself: The aim of negative people is to bring you down and make you feel you are not good enough or capable of achieving that goal you have set your mind to or anything. Even if you are good enough, negative people will tell you that you are not still good enough. If you don’t believe you can achieve, you won’t achieve. In my post titled believe yourself first them others will , I wrote “because we get lack of support from people, our attitude towards our dream drops drastically. How we handle the lack of support is what is important to us. The way we handle this lack of support determines if we can make our dream come true or not.” Even if those lack of support may not allow us to achieve, you have to still keep moving. Only when you move that you achieve and not by quitting.
Prove them Wrong: When negative people see you achieve things they didn’t believe you could achieve, it will begin to change their perspective about you. Even if you fail to achieve the goal but you made a step to achieve it, it will still have an effect on their mindset about you. They will know you are a goal getter, always ready for success and capable of success. Achieve that goal they said you cannot achieve. Be good enough for that thing that they say you are not good enough for. Go for that goal, prove them wrong and prove yourself wrong too.
Keep your Enemies Closer: The purpose of keeping your enemies close is that they will be the first to let you know when you are not doing something right and that is good for you because you will now be able to adjust your errors and have a better work. The closer your enemies the better for you. Listen to those negative comments you get carefully and adjust accordingly. Know more about the benefits of your enemies by reading my post 3 reasons you should love your enemies.
Don’t take those Negative Comments to Heart: A healthy you is a better you. Don’t allow those negative comments get to your heart to depress you. Endevour to always stay happy. Their aim to make you believe those negative comments and to depress you. Don’t give them that go ahead but rather make them believe you are capable and good enough.